Sharing Ashes Among Loved Ones

Honoring together, while staying connected

Many families choose to share ashes so that siblings, children, or close friends can each hold a part of their loved one’s memory. Pachamama urns make this possible with Small Urns designed for sharing, paired with a Medium or Large Urn for the main farewell. This way, every person feels included in the ceremony, while nature is honored through fully biodegradable vessels.

Why families choose to share ashes

  • Creates space for multiple ceremonies (home, garden, sea, or lake).

  • Helps family members feel personally connected.

  • Offers comfort when loved ones live in different places.

  • Small Urns hold a portion of ashes, while Medium or Large Urns carry the full farewell.

How it works: sharing step by step

Before the ceremony

  • Decide how many urns are needed (1 Medium/Large + 2–3 Small Urns is common).

  • Place ashes into the biodegradable bags included with each urn.

  • Distribute the Small Urns to family members.

During the ceremony

  • Each person may release their urn in the same moment or at different times.

  • Combine with petals, short readings, or music for a personal touch.

After the ceremony

  • The urns float briefly, then sink and dissolve naturally.

  • Families often describe this as a “shared blessing,” seeing several urns release together.

FAQs

Can ashes be divided among several urns?
Yes. Our Small Urns are designed to hold a portion of ashes for sharing.

How many urns should I plan for?
Many families choose 1 Medium or Large Urn plus 2–3 Small Urns, depending on how many loved ones will participate.

Do the Small Urns float the same way?
Yes. They float briefly (30 seconds to 2 minutes) before sinking and dissolving.

Can we hold ceremonies in different places?
Yes. Families often keep a Small Urn for a lake, garden, or private ceremony, while the main urn is released at sea.

Are Small Urns included in your kits?
Yes. Our Memorial Kits are designed for this purpose and come with coordinated urn sizes.

Is it safe for the environment if we release multiple urns?
Absolutely. All Pachamama urns are biodegradable and eco-safe.

Respect for the bond

Sharing urns allows each family member to hold the farewell in their own hands, creating an intimate connection with the person they love. Whether together on the water or apart in different places, this practice honors both individuality and unity.