A beach can be one of the most peaceful places to gather with family and friends to honor a loved one. The shoreline offers space for reflection, while the ocean provides a natural path for ashes to return gently to nature. In the U.S., families may hold a beach gathering and then travel by boat to scatter ashes at least 3 nautical miles from shore, as required by the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA).
This guide explains how to plan a beach memorial, what to bring, and how to create a meaningful moment.
Quick Legal Basics (U.S. Waters)
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Ash scattering must take place ≥ 3 nautical miles from land.
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No depth requirement for cremated remains.
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Use only materials that readily decompose (e.g., natural flowers, biodegradable urn).
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Families must file the EPA Burial-at-Sea report within 30 days.
What to Bring (Packing List)
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Biodegradable urn (protected for travel).
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Biodegradability certificate (print or digital).
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Death & cremation certificates (copies are fine).
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Optional: fresh flower petals or a small bouquet.
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Small cloth and hand wipes for after the ceremony.
How It Works — Before, During, After
1. Before the Ceremony
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Confirm state/local regulations and EPA rules.
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Arrange a boat or charter that can take you ≥ 3 nautical miles offshore.
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Pack all required documents in your carry-on.
2. Gathering at the Shoreline
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Begin with a short, gentle gathering at the beach.
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Share a poem, memory, or blessing.
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Light a candle or hold hands as you prepare to board.
3. On the Water (Day Of)
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Travel offshore to the proper distance.
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Release the biodegradable urn gently into the waves.
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Scatter petals if you wish, and allow a moment of silence.
4. After the Ceremony
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File the EPA’s Burial-at-Sea report within 30 days.
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Keep the confirmation for your family records.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can we scatter ashes directly from the beach?
No. U.S. law requires scattering at least 3 nautical miles offshore. The beach may serve as your gathering space, but scattering must occur at sea.
Do we need a permit in advance?
No prior permit is needed. The EPA’s general permit covers the ceremony, but you must report it within 30 days.
What type of urn should we use?
A biodegradable urn designed for water release. These float briefly, then sink and dissolve naturally.
Are flowers or decorations allowed?
Yes, but only natural, biodegradable petals or stems. No plastics, ribbons, or artificial items.
Can we hold a small ceremony at the beach before going offshore?
Absolutely. Many families share readings, music, or a quiet moment at the shoreline before boarding the boat.
Free Worksheet for Families
Planning feels easier with a checklist in hand. Download our EPA Burial-at-Sea Family Worksheet to keep all steps and requirements in one place.
👉 Download the EPA Burial-at-Sea Family Worksheet (PDF)
Respect for the Ocean 🌿
Our biodegradable urns are designed to float gently, sink, and dissolve completely. Please use only materials that return safely to nature.
Every beach holds its own music—the sound of waves, the shifting light, the vast horizon. When you choose the shoreline for a farewell, you’re not only saying goodbye, you’re weaving your loved one’s memory into a place where sky and sea meet endlessly.Take your time, breathe, and allow the moment to be simple. What stays with you isn’t just the ritual itself, but the feeling of being together, held by nature. That’s the gift of a beach memorial: love carried gently on the tide.
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