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What to Bring to a Shore or Boat Ceremony: A Compassionate Checklist
What to Bring to a Shore or Boat Ceremony: A Compassionate Checklist
Some goodbyes belong to water. The hush of a lake at dusk, the slow roll of the ocean, the way light rests on the surface—everything invites a gentler pace. If... Read more...
Mini Biodegradable Urns: How to Plan a Multi-Location Memorial
Mini Biodegradable Urns: How to Plan a Multi-Location Memorial
Some families carry love across many horizons. When gathering in one place isn’t possible, mini biodegradable urnsmake it gentle to hold simultaneous ceremonies—simple ash-scattering or small burials in different locations—so... Read more...
Lake Farewells: saying goodbye where the water holds you
Lake Farewells: saying goodbye where the water holds you
Some goodbyes belong to water. There’s a way a lake keeps quiet for you—the light resting on the surface, the tiny lap of waves, the feeling that the world is... Read more...
A butterfly garden for someone you love
A butterfly garden for someone you love
Some goodbyes ask for quiet hands and a slower breath. Over time I’ve learned that the most comforting farewells are simple, kind to the Earth, and rooted in a place... Read more...
What to Say at a Farewell Ceremony: Gentle Words for Scattering Ashes in Nature
What to Say at a Farewell Ceremony: Gentle Words for Scattering Ashes in Nature
There’s a tender question that so many families bring to me: “What do we say when it’s time?”When hands are holding a biodegradable urn, when the lake is quiet, when... Read more...
Return to Where Love Lived: Choosing a Meaningful Place in Nature for a Farewell
Return to Where Love Lived: Choosing a Meaningful Place in Nature for a Farewell
Lately, many families have written to me with the same quiet truth: we chose a place where they were happy. A lake where a father fished at sunrise. A quiet... Read more...
What to Do with Ashes After Cremation: A Heartfelt Guide to Choosing a Meaningful Farewell
What to Do with Ashes After Cremation: A Heartfelt Guide to Choosing a Meaningful Farewell
When someone we love dies, we enter a quiet, unfamiliar territory. One moment we are caring, supporting, loving—and the next we are left holding the weight of decisions no one... Read more...
An Earth‑Embraced Goodbye: Choosing a Biodegradable Urn with Intention
An Earth‑Embraced Goodbye: Choosing a Biodegradable Urn with Intention
A few weeks ago, a client asked me: "What does a biodegradable urn really mean?" In that simple question was the heart of what Pachamama believes — that a goodbye,... Read more...
Designing a Farewell Ceremony That Feels Like Them (And Like You)
Designing a Farewell Ceremony That Feels Like Them (And Like You)
Some moments in life can’t be rushed. Saying goodbye is one of them. If you're here, maybe you're about to return ashes to nature. Or maybe you're just beginning to... Read more...
When Grief Travels Across Oceans
When Grief Travels Across Oceans
Some losses arrive like quiet waves. No sudden impact, no crash—just a slow and painful realization that someone you love is no longer here. That you weren't there. That everything... Read more...
Maybe It’s Her
Maybe It’s Her
The other day I walked into a store and, without warning, I remembered being eight or nine, standing beside my mom as we looked at notebooks, or walked the aisles... Read more...
When Love Stays: Living with the Absence of Those We Miss
When Love Stays: Living with the Absence of Those We Miss
Some mornings I still reach for my phone on Sundays, almost instinctively. There’s a quiet moment of pause where my body remembers before my mind does—that my mom isn’t on... Read more...